Fashion Philosophy

This site is not so much about designers and expensive luxuries, like many fashion blogs and sites seem to be, but is more oriented toward style, as the name suggests. I believe in finding things that fit and flatter every figure, not just those of models. I think that style is more about self expression, history, and culture, than the hottest fads and trends. And I think that style is unique to each person.

My own person style is slightly dressy, classic, and a tiny bit funky. I like to mix and match pieces and textures, though I’m not much for layering, or at least, not as much as some people are. I like to buy pieces that might be trendy at the time, but that are classic and flattering enough to stand the test of time.

Finding your own style is about figuring out what you like and don’t like. It is not about following every single trend and fad that comes along, nor is it about buying expensive designer clothes. It’s one thing to buy the occasional investment piece, but it’s quite another to max out your credit cards, just to look “good.” It is my experience that most designer clothes are generally not worth the listed price. There are a few exceptions, such as with good suits, shoes, and coats, but even then you don’t have to break the bank.

But back to finding your own style. Try browsing fashion mags (paper or online) and cutting out (or copying and saving to a file) things that really strike you and you really like. Then, do the same thing with pieces you think would look good on your body. Do they match? If they do, head out to a store, try to find the equivalents, and try them on! Trying clothes on before you buy is VERY IMPORTANT! If it doesn’t fit right, and/or you don’t love it, don’t buy it! If what you like and what you think would look good on you, don’t match, ask yourself, “Why not?”

I also think that appearance and perception are important (though not necessarily the most important). How you look says a lot about how you perceive yourself and how you think others perceive you. It can tell people whether you like the arts or the outdoors or sports or history. It can tell people about your life, like whether you work in an office or outside, in a gym or your own tech business. It can also tell people how much you care about your appearance. Bad clothing and/or bad hygiene almost always mean low self esteem. I’m not saying that you have to wear a suit and tie, or a formal dress every day. I’m saying that if you take care of yourself and wear things that you look and feel good in, people will notice. Clothes are closely tied to self-esteem, too. If you look and feel good, you’ll probably feel better about yourself. And confidence is an extremely important part of your wardrobe. A good smile might be a fabulous accessory, but confidence is an essential.

So put on your favorite pair of jeans, some good shoes, and a cute top, and head out into the world prepared for anything it throws at you!